In my family, hard work was never framed as something extra. It wasn’t a badge of honor or a special accomplishment. It was simply the expectation. You showed up. You did your best. You followed through. That standard was set early, reinforced often, and never negotiated. At fifteen years old, I requested special permission from…
Author: Shane McKinney
Learning the Difference Between Talking and Listening
Growing up, my father used to tell me a story about his own childhood. When he got in trouble, his father would give him a choice: a speech or a spanking. My father always chose the spanking. It was over in a few minutes. The speech, he said, could go on for hours. At the…
What I Learned Watching the Adults Around Me
I feel incredibly fortunate to have been surrounded by truly remarkable adults at a very young and influential age. Long before I understood leadership, service, or responsibility, I was watching it lived out every day. A lot of people say their mother is a saint. I know mine is. I have never met a more…
Where It All Started: The Home That Shaped Me
It all started in Mexico, Missouri. It wasn’t a fairytale—but it is my story. My parents married young and had two children: my sister and me. Like many families, life didn’t unfold exactly as planned, and they eventually divorced. What followed wasn’t instability; it was evolution. My mother later remarried my stepfather, and together they…